The Tipping Point.

Have you ever found yourself falling victim to a huge trend?... No matter how hard you tried to prevent yourself from conforming? I know I have. Well, the ones I actually like. You see, by the time trends reach me, or us, it really becomes a lot more of about a popularity thing and a lot less about how valuable it is, or how one person's isolated choice sparked something big. It's about who is doing it and why we should too. Or at least that's what I always thought. But Malcolm Gladwell's "The Tipping Point" opened my eyes a little. There's always more to the story, and I guess that's really every story.

Gladwell's main argument in "The Tipping Point" is that almost every major trend or phenomenon has three major components, which he calls "three rules of epidemics": the Law of the Few, the Stickiness Factor, and the Power of Context. And with these three components, I've come up with one word or phrase to represent or describe the function or value of the component based on how I interpreted their impact. 


The first component is Law of the Few. To me, this component is all about influenece. I know you're first question is, "Okay, well who are the few?" The Few are the Connector, the Maven and the Salesman. The Connectors are the people that know people, and tons of them. People in various professional, social, economic and any other realms you can probably think of. The Mavens are push people to make the best decision and The Salesmans are the ones who, obviously, sell through persuasion. If you have a Connector, a Maven and a Salesman, your 1/3 of the way there.

Now the Stickiness Factor is pretty self-explanatory. If you want a trend, it has to stick - it has to be memorable. If people can't remember it, it might as well disppear into a big, black hole forever. Most of the time, this means it is unique, rare and fresh. It is something people are captivated by and want to see more of, like the Kardashians. Okay, so they are a little dysfunctional, inappropiate and crazy... and you might not even like them, but the rest of the world does; yes, literally the world, not just the United States. The Kardashians are as sticky as can be. 

I explain the Power of Context in four words: right place, right time. I hate to make a music reference, but this is indeed a music blog. Big Sean says in his song "Don't Tell Me You Love Me", "What's the perfect girl if it's not the perfect time?" Well, this line definitely applies to trends as well. Just imagine if someone tried to start the fashion trend of crop top in the the conservative early 1900's. It just wouldn't work....and I bet Malcolm Gladwell can back me up on that.

If "The Tipping Point" isn't your style, check out some of Malcom Gladwell's other publications: 
Blink
What the Dog Saw: and Other Adventures

Self-Reliance.

If I had to choose one piece of writing to read for the rest of my life, it would be Ralph Waldo Emerson's essay, Self-Reliance. I was first introduced to the essay in tenth grade. My teacher forced us to read a lot of nonsense that year, most of which I honestly did not understand or at least struggled to. But Self-Reliance was a gem to me, a diamond in the rough. This is one of my many favorite lines from the essay (which is also on the bio page for my website):

"The power which resides in her is new in nature. And none but she knows what that is which she can do, nor does she know until she has tried."

This quote actually aligns quite well with Taylor Swift's from my last post. I'm a firm believer in the fact that I know myself better than anyone else, for better or for worse. My mom has always told me, "If you don't believe in yourself, who will?" The older I've become, the more relevant this question becomes. People are going to doubt you every day of your life. Don't be one of them

Check out some of my classmates' blogs who believe in what they do:

Lisa Greenberg
Brandan McCalla
Nick Swain

Wise Words from Taylor Swift.

In case you don't remember, I love Taylor Swift. Now I know I usually analyze every inch of a song for my posts, but I figured this was close enough. One of the most important pieces of advice my 22-year old, emotional, confused, confident yet insecure self has heard came straight from her mouth. During an interview with Glamour Magazine, she said this:

"If you go too far down the rabbit hole of what people think about you, it can change everything about who you are."

Brilliant, right? And even more than brilliant... it's so true. We all care what people think to some extent, no matter how much anyone claims to not care. I promise you, if you hear enough stuff about you... it will affect you. I think it's healthy to care what people think. It really keeps you in check with your character flaws, but it also highlights the strengths you might not know you even had. It's important for people to see the negative and positive sides of themselves, and sometimes you can only see it through other people. We can be so blind when it comes to our own selves. 

The key to all this is knowing yourself; staying true to yourself and believing in your worth and uniqueness and individuality. If you believe in all these things, you won't feel the need to change no matter what people say. It's all about balance. Don't be ignorant to what people say but definitely don't let it tear you up and change you. That's probably the worst thing to ever lose... yourself. 

Check out some of my classmates who know just who they are:

Jaclyn DeAugustino
Rachel Stern
Shane Chernoff

Big Girl, Big City.

One of the biggest compliments I've ever received was from the most unlikely of people: my ex-boyfriend. Not unlikely because we hate eachother, or because we ended our relationship a horrible note. It's actually nothing like that. It's unlikely because ex-boyfriends just aren't supposed to do that; be supportive, say nice things and check on how you're doing. At least I didn't think so. But mine did... mine does. I had never heard "Big Girl Big City" until he text me one day, telling me to listen to it because the song reminded him so much of me and that it was my life. My first reaction was "Oh lordy..." I'm not going to lie, I was nervous. "Big Girl Big City" could go north or south. Turns out, it was north...

If I had to pick a biography for my older self, it would be this song.

Bei Maejor- Big Girl Big City

Go girl, get it girl. Show em' whatchu got
I hope you really know that you're worth a whole lot
With the world in your hands, you ain't neva gon' stop
Naw you gon' make it to the top

Go girl, get it girl. Show em' whatchu got
I hope you really know that you're worth a whole lot
With the world in your hands, you ain't neva gon' stop
Naw you gon' make it to the top

Such a big girl livin' in a big city
Remember high school you was just pretty
Now you in college ya lookin' so beautiful
Ya got your nails did, I see your lil cuticles
Ya got five classes working two jobs though
Can only get a little help from ya moms though
It's all good tell momma you don't need it
Cause you a big girl and everybody see it
I know ya pops probably really really proud of ya
He'll do anything just to see a smile on ya
And if them dudes ever try to act foul on ya
You know that he gon' be the one to put it down for ya
Oh, you hear em' say you ain't ready to be alone
You won't survive out here on your own
But you don't care what they sayin'
Graduation time gon' raise your hand

Work for the money gon' get it girl
Show em' what you got chu a big girl
People gon' hate cause they don't know
Don't know how much you want it baby

Go girl, get it girl
Show em' whatchu got
I hope you really know that you're worth a whole lot
With the world in your hands, you ain't neva gon' stop
Naw you gon' make it to the top

Go girl, get it girl
Show em' whatchu got
I hope you really know that you're worth a whole lot
With the world in your hands, you ain't neva gon' stop
Naw you gon' make it to the top

Still such a big girl livin' in a big city
You neva sleep now it seems ya too busy
You got goals so you're steady trynna stack it up
Set your boyfriend to left he was acting up
New job so your down with the roomates
Your best friend two months from her due date
Your gonna be a god mother very soon babe
You let the use the guest room at your new place
You'll learn the hard way not to give your heart away, to a liar
You had too many heartbreaks
There's somebody out there who would die for ya
Don't even know it, but they standin' in line for ya
Oh, keep your head up don't worry
Sunshine's comin' your way
Your whole family in the stands
Gon' celebrate gon' do your dance

Work for the money gon' get it girl
Show em' what you got chu a big girl
People gon' hate cause they don't know
Don't know how much you want it baby

Go girl, get it girl
Show em' whatchu got
I hope you really know that you're worth a whole lot
With the world in your hands, you ain't neva gon' stop
Naw you gon' make it to the top. (repeat 8 times)

It's scary how accurate the detailed facts in this song are in comparison to my life. Right down to "your best friend's two months from her due date. You're gonna be a Godmother very soon babe" At the time when he mentioned the song to me, my best friend was pregnant with her first child. And guess who she asked to be the Godmother? Me.

"Big Girl Big City" is that one little savior that reminds me to try and see myself through other's eyes... especially people who know me best, which my ex-boyfriend is most definitely one of them. I was in shock not totally because it was coming from him... but that somehow he (someone, anyone) believed all these wonderful and positive things about me, my work ethic, my potential and my life.... that I have so much to offer, that I'm worth so much more than I think, that I have the world in my hands and that I was going to make it to the top. I'm not saying I don't believe any of these things about myself, but I definitely have my share of doubts. Big time. But this song tells me that he doesn't. How is it that I have so many... but he is so confident in me? It's so hard to explain how much that means to me. I'm almost positive it was not a big deal for him, but it's something I will never forget. I'm a lucky girl for the people God has placed in my life... I really am.

The "Miracle" Drug.

I'm switching it up for this post. Like, a lot. I'm not going to cover a song at all. I'm going to let you hear my very first investigative piece. You've probably never even heard of what my story is centered on, so don't feel bad. I didn't either, until I watched an episode of Law and Order: Special Victims Unit (which is one of my favorite shows on television). I'm surprised I hadn't seen the episode sooner considering I've seen every other episode at least twice. My television is always set on USA. And that's a solid, fact. B.D. Wong, who plays Dr. Huang in the show, mentioned a drug called ibogaine, which is currently illegal in the United States, and it's potential to treat and nearly cure addiction. It immediately sparked my interest. I'm not sure if it was the journalist in me or the fact that I was genuinely interested in this drug that seemed to be miraculous as to what it could do. I googled it as soon as the episode was over and found out ibogaine was in fact very real. And it was being used to treat addiction all across the world. And just like that, I had an idea for my first story. I was probably most proud of this story's research aspect because I had to do a lot of digging and really learn a large amount from the internet and my sources in order to properly understand this drug and its status in the U.S. and around the world. I hope this story opens your eyes just a little. There really are two sides two every story, each side with their own reasoning behind it. Always choose what you believe in and believe is right. You can't ever go wrong with that. Ever.

The "Miracle" Drug

If you're interested in what I do:

Courtney Allen

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Round Here.

Lets take a break from love and talk about life. I don't think I've done that since my Drake post. Below is my first post on a rendition. I like it significantly better than the original. You should check both out and see if you agree.

PT Walkley- 'Round Here (Original- Counting Crows)

Step out the front door like the ghost
into the fog where no one notices
the contrast of white on white
And in between the moon and you
angels get a better view
of the crumbling difference between wrong and right
I walk in the air between the rain
through myself and back again
Where? I don't know
Maria says she's dying
through the door I hear her crying
Why? I don't know

Round here we always stand up straight
Round here something radiates

Maria came from Nashville with a suitcase in her hand
she said she'd like to meet a boy who looks like Elvis
she walks along the edge of where the ocean meets the land
just like she's walking on a wire in the circus
she parks her car outside of my house
and takes her clothes off
She says she's close to understanding Jesus
She knows she's just a little misunderstood
She has trouble acting normal when she's nervous

Round here we're carving out our names
Round here we all look the same
Round here we talk just like lions
But we sacrifice like lambs
Round here she's slipping through my hands

Sleeping children better run like the wind
out of the lightning dream
Mama's little baby better get herself in
out of the lightning

She says It's only in my head
She says Shhh I know it's only in my head
But the girl in car in the parking lot
says "Man you should try to take a shot
can't you see my walls are crumbling?"
Then she looks up at the building
and says she's thinking of jumping
She says she's tired of life
she must be tired of something

Round here she's always on my mind
Round here hey man I've got lots of time
Round here we're never sent to bed early
And nobody makes us wait
Round here we stay up very, very, very, very late

I can't see nothin', nothin', round here. 
No, you catch me when I'm fallin'. 
You catch me if I'm fallin'. 
You catch me if I'm falling down on you. 
I said " I'm under the gun..." 
Round here. 
Man I said "I'm under the gun..." 
Round here. 
And I can't see nothin', nothin'. 
Round here

I remember searching long and hard for this gem. I first heard it in the movie Something Borrowed. I guess that's how I discover a lot of amazing songs that I wouldn't have heard otherwise. They're always amongst some of my very best.

What fascinates me most about "'Round Here" is that I still struggle understanding what it's about. It's defintely not one of those straight forward, on-the-surface songs that can be applied to a million and one circumstances. But even those songs have a detailed story behind them. The exact stories just didn't translate through the song, whether the writer did it on purpose or not. To someone standing on the outside, this song is a bunch of unrelated experiences and ideas squeezed into one song. But I know for the band that wrote it, (it was originally written by the band Counting Crows in case you missed that fact above), it means a little more than that... actually, a lot I'm sure. No matter what this song is about, I know it has a powerful backstory. And I don't dismiss its significance one bit just because I don't fully comprehend it. I assume that's why I listen to it so much. I think every time I listen I find a new way of interpreting it. I don't think I'll ever fully know what this song is about unless I sit down with a member of Counting Crows. And I think I'm okay with that.

If there's one thing that I know for sure, it's that this song was written so carefully, not to mention beautifully. And despite my lack of complete comprehension, there are lines that I really, really love.

"And in between the moon and you, the angels get a better view of the crumbling difference between wrong and right."

Rome, Italy. 2013

Angels are flying in this picture. I just can't see them. This is the most beautiful spot I've ever been to in my entire life, and if there's anyone that deserves to inhabitat it... it's them. This line means so much. I think it does for anyone who lives on this Earth and recognizes that it can be so loving, accepting, and beautiful yet so hateful and cruel at the same time. I've always considered angels to be somewhat omniscient. Of course not in all aspects, but definitely in a visual sense. I'm sure things are a lot more clear from up there ("up there" as in heaven), and I think Counting Crows would agree. I think the closer you get to Earth, the more cloudy things get; specifically the judgments and choices we make as a human race. Shame on us for slowly losing sight of such a thing. Crumbling. That word haunts me in this context. Although we're losing sight of wrong and right piece by piece, in probably the smallest fragments you could ever imagine, we are heading towards deterioration. Now that's going to take some time... for loss of judgment between what's wrong and what's right... and I'm not going to be around for it nor would I ever want to. But someone will. Some 7 billion people. And me being gone doesn't make it sound any better.

"Round here talk is just like lions. But we sacrifice like lambs."

Aracena, Spain. 2013

My first time seeing a lamb in the flesh. It brings me to this song. I think this line really represents us as people in general. Lions are firece, unbreakable, fearless and can't be touched. And I think that's how we often portray ourselves. We pretend we are a lot stronger than we really are and I think that's okay. But when you look at what you're willing to sacrifice, whatever it may be and for whatever reason, it really reflects what you're all about. Sacrifice is one of the hardest things to do. In reality, who really wants to give one thing up for another? We all want to take all that we can get without facing the consequence of losing something in return.

"'Round Here" is that one little savior that reminds me to stop and take a look at the world and the people around me. It reminds me to think beyond the surface, because there is always something there. Always.

The Light.

Photo: s2smagazine.com

IN HONOR OF SCANDAL THURSDAY...

Let me start off by saying, if you don't watch Scandal... I'm sorry. It's one of the best shows airing on television right now. And I only call it "one of the best" to be fair. I don't watch every show on television so I am forced to leave some breathing room. For those of you who do watch Scandal, you should recognize the song below.

The Album Leaf- The Light

This is song is one in a million. Okay, maybe just one in 1,368. It's the only song on my iPOD that has no words whatsoever. The reason for that is simple: I love music, but I love lyrics way more. But for me, this song doesn't even need it. Scandal is centered around a love triangle, in which the President of the United States, Fitz Grant, is completely in love with Washington D.C.'s most prominent fixer, Olivia Pope, played by the lovely Kerry Washington. As you can probably guess, the third member of the triangle is the First Lady herself, Mellie Grant. I know, so Scandalous right?

The thing with Fitz and Liv is that their love is unlike any other that I've seen on any television show. They are madly in love and there is absolutely no doubting that. You can feel it through the screen; through their facial expressions, through their dialouge, through their body language. It's the type of love where you love the other person more than yourself, and everything you say and do is centered around them. John Mayer type of love is what I like to call it. "The Light" is actually played during very passionate and/or emotional scenes between Fitz and Liv, which happens pretty frequently throughout the series. And if you watch the show, you can't help but feel a huge flow of emotion sneak up on you as soon as it starts playing. Well, that is if you are as emotionally invested in the show and their love as I am. The one thing I hate about their relationship is that it leaves me encouraging an affair, rooting for them to take over the world side by side. In reality, I obviously wouldn't be doing that. But I'll make an exception for Scandal and it's completely fictional world that I sometimes believe I live in. 

The crazy thing about this song is the association I instantly find. Not one word is spoken, sang, or rapped in this song, yet I literally find myself crying and freaking out every time it comes on, simply because I connect it with Scandal. If a writer for a television show can do that... that's nothing less than an extremely successful one. I mean the point in it all is to grab you in, hold your attention, and truly make you feel what they are trying to display. Shonda Rhimes does that every time.

"The Light" is that one little savior that reminds me that music is just as important as the lyrics. And music is often there to let people know how to feel about the lyrics. But if you can feel that emotion, and I mean truly feel it without lyrics. That's..... everything.